Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, February 1, 2016

Sometimes, Erica just wants to chat.


Can you believe it's February??  My coworker states every day that she can't believe it's already *insert date of the month.* I always laugh and sarcastically reply, "Yeah, it's already the 20th because yesterday was the 19th." But, really...February 2016 already. I can barely believe it!
       I've been mega-super-busy preparing RagsReborn for its spring craft show season. (Show details will be posted on another week's blog. I still have to confirm dates and try to get into one more show.) I haven't had much time for crafting or cooking, so tonight, we will just chat. There are tons of bloggers who just reminisce about their day & what they had for lunch and get great responses so let's just try it out. (Although, I'm pretty sure what I had for lunch isn't as exciting as what the celebrity bloggers had for lunch. Woe is me!)
       Disclaimer: I'm also exhausted from a very busy Open Enrollment season at work. Please forgive me if this blog just goes all over the place with no proper beginning or ending.
I have the address of the party purposely blocked out. If you're interested in attending this amazing event, please email me at ragsreborngifts@gmail.com 

Before we start, I wanted to invite you to my first at home party (although it's not at my home so you should probably RSVP to the Facebook page or email me before showing up). I'm teaming up with my friend, Kristin, to host an Arbonne/RagsReborn party! Hooray (\^_^/) Kristin is an Arbonne Independent Consultant and I will be her assistant. Along with all the wonderful Arbonne products, I will have a small display of pillows for sale. I'm excited for this new way of promoting and selling my pillows.

Enough of the craft show stuff, you'll get plenty of that in the upcoming weeks when I promote each of my upcoming spring shows. It's been over a year (much closer to two years, actually!) of Monday Craft Night blogging... I guess tonight we can get personal.
       It's a little blurry but that is a picture of my greatest craft endeavor before RagsReborn. I started cross stitching in middle school (yes, while the rest of my class was busy hooking up and partying, little Erica was learning a craft & planting the seeds for her sewing business to come many years later). This cross stitch took me literally two decades to complete. In a way, it was my therapy. When I was stressed out from school, work, boys or family or simply needed some quiet time to think, I would pull this baby out and work on it. This thing stayed by my side throughout college and even went with me to study abroad in Spain. And when I got my first "real job," I stuck it in my purse and brought it with me to work.
       I finished it a few months before my thirtieth birthday. I didn't plan it that way but about a month or so after I finished this little project, I finally worked up the nerve to open my shop on Etsy and then a few more months after that, I participated in my first craft show. I feel like finishing the cross stitch meant I could let go of all my childish worries and use all my energy to focus on something bigger and better.

This is what the inside of my closet wall looks like. When Wes moved in, we -as in mostly me- decided to decorate the apartment with our stuff. Nothing of mine and nothing of his but, rather, we wanted to display memories and artifacts from adventures that we will experience together. 
       I did a huge "cleaning" (more like, getting rid of junk) day and pretty much threw away or donated everything that I no longer felt like I needed. Everything in the decor department that survived ended up on this wall. I have my old passport & student visa (framed, of course, because I'm proud of my independent travels), a vinyl recording of John Denver and The Muppet's Christmas album, my very first crucifix from my baptism, an old family picture and an infertility support bracelet (it's like a Livestrong bracelet but it's for infertility). And some other framed items that I couldn't part with. 
       
Okay, okay, we might be getting too sentimental. Let's lighten up the mood. 
       My coworker convinced me to go on my very first diet. (A diet that allowed for Fudgsicles!) Tashara introduced me to Super Shred and to be a supportive friend, I decided I would do the four week regimen with her. I'm pretty much fine with my body image but who can't stand to lose a few pounds, right? Plus, I definitely need to start eating healthier. That was my main reason for wanting to participate.
       We started the diet on January 4th and we survived!! We followed the rules really well at work but I have to admit that I slipped on evenings and weekends (a big part of the diet was eating certain things at certain times and that was too difficult to do on weekends and it was especially hard when I went out to eat). I went into this wanting to train myself to want to eat healthier options. I wasn't necessarily wanting to lose 20lb in 4 weeks (because, frankly, that sounds a little scary...if you lost 20lb every 4 weeks, how sickly would you look after a year??!!?). After going through the diet, I did indeed change my eating habits at work-- success! : ) I used to always snack on junk food and candy. But now, I'm eating fruit, nuts and granola. 
       As I mentioned before, the diet outlined a list of allowed snacks and meals that you were to eat at certain times throughout the day. Since I couldn't eat whenever I wanted, I started to really appreciate food. We have the luxury of having food available 24/7. Many times, we eat when we aren't even hungry. We eat because we're bored or stressed out or emotional. But during the Super Shred, many of our meals were spaced out 5 or 6 hours apart and when it was time to eat, the meal was just either cup of soup or small salad...nothing exciting, but when you're hungry--like really hungry-- you really taste that soup and the greens in your salad are the freshest you've ever had. I don't think I've ever truly ate food that way before. (Half of the time, I just ate because I was bored and I didn't even know what I was eating... yes, first world problems.) I appreciate the accessibility to food so much more now. 

Lastly, I wanted to show you this. This is a picture of my mom and her boyfriend, Mike. I took this picture the very first Easter Triduum we spent together. They have been together for probably three to five years now and they are finally getting married this summer! I cannot be more excited for them!! They are getting married in June in the church where they met. It also happens to be the church that I grew up in. Wes and I are going to be their witnesses when they get the marriage certificate. What an honor! 
       Since I never planned my own wedding or did any wedding themed DIYs, I will definitely be doing some crafting for their wedding. (I think my mom actually put me in charge of decorating!) So that is what you get to look forward to, dear readers. Be prepared for RagsReborn craft show updates and Erica's mom is getting re-married wedding DIYs!
     
I saw this on Facebook and laughed pretty hard. Art history memes are the best!




Monday, December 14, 2015

It's Erica's birthday!

I have officially lived my 30th year of life and am now onto the 31st. Everyone always makes such a fuss about the big 3-0. There are millions of lists proclaiming things to do before you hit 30, things to stop doing before you hit 30 and things to do while you're 30. (We'll visit these lists in a second.) I always thought these "big years" were just overly hyped up... I mean, nothing exciting happened when I turned 16 or 21. I just got older, the earth revolved and life went on. But surprisingly, 2015 has been rather significant. 
       It started with the passing of my first ever pet - R.I.P Kensington, then I got engaged and married twice (to the same man), 
                       I got a tattoo and dyed my hair a crazy color for the first time-- yes, the FIRST time; I am the world's latest bloomer. Look me up in the record books... "Erica Ngo: World's Latest Bloomer", 
     I "dreamed big" (oh, the cheesy catch phrases!) by starting my own business and I finally accepted & embraced issues with my health.  
I'd say that year thirty has been quite the adventure.

Shout out to @beatinfertility for having this inspirational picture on Instagram that I'm totally stealing and using for my blog!

Before I started this blog entry, I wanted to do some research... what exactly is a 30 year supposed to be doing with their life? I've never been similar to my peers but no matter how different we all are, everyone will come across the same doubts and fears as we move into adulthood. Along with these doubts & fears, we all try to create bucket lists for ourselves. Let's see what the Internet thinks our bucket lists should look like--

I'm fabulous because I don't do many of the things that BuzzFeed thinks is bad for 30-year-olds.
First off, let's explore things that I should no longer be doing: http://www.buzzfeed.com/shannonrosenberg/unhealthy-living-habits#.qj65WmXpx
       I'm safe here; being the World's Latest Bloomer, I never really even picked up half of these habits. The only ones I still obsess over are #8 (mostly at craft shows when I see all the vendors around me doing so much better than I am. *screams & cries* "Why does no one like my pillows!!!"), #15 because I love to sleep & #18 because, really, who really stops doing this? 

Living your dreams and pursuing your goals came up a lot on these lists. I am proud to say that I can check that off because I have RagsReborn---my life, my breath and my soul!
Now that I've kicked all my bad habits, let's see what I'm supposed to have achieved. I picked the top two websites on my Google search. 
Whoa, whoa, WHOA... "Go bungee jumping or skydiving," "Climb a mountain ," "Learn to bar tend," "Go scuba diving." I can't do any of these things. I can't even swim!! Plus, none of these things interest me. Next list, please.
This list seems more realistic. I have accomplished about half of the things described on the list. Woo hoo, go Erica!! 
* I've traveled to Paris (not as this author described... I went with family when I was 10.) 
* I've turned my hobby into my dream job (that should count as "working at my dream job"). 
* I was a member of a young professionals group who did volunteer work and I have various charities as my life insurance beneficiaries. 
* I took a road trip this year! And have fallen in love. <3 (Since my road trip was with my husband, I decided to mark these off the list as one item.)
* I have traveled solo and am on my third passport (the damn things keep expiring!!)
* I've taken several "how to" classes, read some of the classics, watched plenty of "must see movies," learned a plethora of DIY crafts and have met many new & interesting people throughout my lifetime.
* I haven't written a book but I've written a blog...does that count?
* I got a tattoo & have ridden on a motorcycle.
* I've always lived pretty healthily and I love exotic foods!
* I've seen my favorite band (Goo Goo Dolls!!!!) and a Broadway show (I saw Cabaret in Madrid...maybe that doesn't really count as "Broadway.") 

This picture goes with the last section of this paragraph... the "be content with what you have and stop pitying yourself" part.
Last one... what should I be doing now that I am in my thrities? http://distractify.com/old-school/2015/04/22/smart-things-to-do-at-30-1197892772
       After reading this list, I feel pretty good about my future 50 year old self. I do almost all of these things already. :) There are only a few that I need to get myself into gear on. 
       I was exercising on the regular but don't as much anymore. I'll add this to the list of New Year's resolutions. And I MUST "learn to be content with what I have." I live a pretty good life but there a lot of things that people my age have and talk about that I will never experience. That is when the suicidal pessimistic loner version of me comes out. "Stop being suicidal pessimistic loner Erica" will also be added to the list of New Year's resolutions. The last thing that keeps coming up on all these lists and will definitely be a part of the resolutions is "become a homeowner". 

These lists are all pretty generic and I agree with a lot of their points but we each live our own special and unique lives so I have made a list of my own. The top three things that I am most proud of achieving in my thirtieth year are:
     1. I found my best friend, my other half, my soul mate and all that other mushy titles that I'm supposed to use when referring to my husband. I love being married. It wasn't something that was on my bucket list but now that I am married, I wouldn't have it any other way.
     2. I "discovered who I am." It sounds so cliche but I think I finally accepted myself as a person (Who Erica is-- "I'm a fiercely independent weirdo who can't whip or nae nae, who loves dogs and doesn't like crowds and only has about 3 or 4 friends but having any more would be too stressful so I've stopped trying to make new friends which makes me come off as really socially awkward."). I let a lot of my former friends go and focused on what made me happy. I joined a book club, attend numerous craft shows, and finally stand up for myself at work (much to my boss' dismay).
     3. I discovered some health problems but instead of dwelling on it, I sought medical attention and accepted my infertility with pride. I'm actually working on a stand up routine... here are my first two jokes:
How infertile is she?
     Having sex with Erica is the number one form of birth control!
How infertile is she?
     Inspirational posters have a disclaimer made just for me!
Okay, so maybe the stand up was a bad idea. LOL Endometriosis sucks big time and I'm still a little sad and bitter (anyone infertile who says that that aren't is a liar) but I think I'm mostly okay. I have my fur babies, Sadie & Athena, and of course, I have my craft shows. 

All in all, year 30 was quite great. The pros outweighed the cons. Husband, thriving Etsy shop/craft show/small business & new puppy. Happy birthday to me and I look forward to year 40!




Monday, August 24, 2015

Erica is going back to crafting...

...that's not to say that I had abandoned crafting. (Oh no, I would never do that!) I just had a few weeks of recipes and a craft show taking up my time. Speaking of craft shows, I will blog about The Summer Show next week. I just wanted to give it a week or two to sink in so I had sufficient time to gather my thoughts before writing my reflection on it.

But it's called "Monday Craft Night" so I'm back to it. Way back, actually... back to when I had an old friend over each Monday evening for dinner and crafting. The original Monday craft night that started almost four years ago. I made this as a going away gift for my former crafting buddy last year. She moved to Texas and much has happened since. Sadly, both the occurrence Monday craft night and our friendship has dissolved but I think this project is very fitting for how we left off. Life moves everyone in different directions and sometimes, it's best to accept that life has come between us and let go.
Let's rewind to Christmas 2014. There is a Needtobreathe song titled "Keep Your Eyes Open" that I felt was really appropriate to use as a going away gift. The recipient of this gift is young and her life was ready to begin a new chapter. The adventures would be boundless and all she needed to do was to leave what was comfortable behind and start anew. She was very excited for this journey but I also sensed a little bit of hesitation. I decided that this would be a reminder of the goodness that lay ahead.

The chorus is:
Cause if you never leave home, never let go
You’ll never make it to the great unknown till you
Keep your eyes open, my love
So tell me you’re strong, tell me you see
I need to hear it, can you promise me to
Keep your eyes open, my love

Its a really great song. I don't know how to link to YouTube or Vevo from my blog so I took some screen shots of the video as it was playing. Find it and give it a watch.
I knew I wanted to use the lyrics somehow in her gift. I settled on wall decor because I figured that everyone needs something to hang on their walls when they move into a new apartment. And, we went to an arts festival several years ago and saw paintings with beaded jewelry hanging from them. We both liked the art and I really wanted to try that technique. I don't have step-by-step pictures but this tutorial is super simple and gives you a lot of artistic freedom.

Layered Collage Wall Hanging tutorial:
       Materials needed: three canvases for painting (I used different sizes.)
                                    card stock
                                    paint 
                                    string
                                    decorative items (I used ribbon, beads and charms.)
                                    hot glue gun & glue
                                    duct tape

1. String your beads onto the ribbon in any pattern and length. Leave about an inch of extra string at the top of each strand of beads.
       I made mine varying patterns and lengths. This was over a year ago so I don't remember if I did that on purpose or not. I think it's probably better to measure your string to painting ratio and sort your beads before starting. Just so you don't make anything too long or run out of beads.

2. Paint your canvases and let them dry.

3. Paint your card stock. I did a solid color, let it dry and then added the lyrics. I chose black and white to give it a chalk board feel with the standard cursive handwriting. 
       Or you could buy card stock in whatever color you intend it to be in the end and skip the whole painting part. I'm sure mine was left over from some other project and I didn't like the color it was. 

4. Once the canvases are dried, hot glue the card stock onto them.

5. Turn the canvases over and hot glue the strings of beads onto the back. 
       Measure and lay the strands of beads on the canvases before gluing. I left a lot of slack at the top of each strand so I had plenty extra string for gluing. 

6. Once they are all glued on and the hot glue is dried, duct tape the strands on along the bottom margin of each canvas. 
       No one will be able to see the duct tape since its on the back so go crazy! Make sure those beaded strands are securely on there!

7. Flip the canvases back over and add whatever other decorative items you have. I'm not sure if you can see clearly in the picture, but the decorative items I chose were cages, keys and birds.